We spend about a third of our lives sleeping. When you spend this much time in bed it’s worth your while to make it as comfortable as possible. My philosophy has always been, spend the most you can afford on the things that come into contact with your body. Creating a beautiful and comfortable bed is just a matter of a few good choices.
1. Start with the best bed sheets you can afford. One hundred percent cotton is best because cotton allows air to flow and keeps your body more comfortable through the night. The type and quality of cotton will determine bed sheet comfort. The best grades of cotton are Egyptian, Combed Cotton, Pima or Supima (registered and licensed). There are also many cotton/polyester blends which are produced to reduce cost. I have yet to find a cotton/poly blend I like. The type of cotton is usually identified on the label so look for one of these four.
Long-staple cottons include Egyptian, pima, and Supima®. Look for “certified” long-staple cottons.
Combed Cotton has been combed to remove short fibres so that only long fibres remain, making a stronger and softer yarn.
The bed sheet finishing is also important and the most common are Percale and Sateen. Either one is a matter of personal preference.
Percale is defined as crisp, durable plain weave fabric typically used for sheets; it has a thread count of at least 180.
Sateen is cotton cloth made with a satin weave, a weave that produces a very soft, lustrous feel but can be somewhat less durable than a tighter weave.
If you like soft sheets, choose a sateen but if you prefer crisp sheets, try percale.
We’ve all heard about the hype on thread count. The higher the thread count per square inch was once considered the determining quality factor. A thread count of 200 or more in combination with good quality cotton is a better sheet than 1000 thread count of standard cotton. There is really no need to go higher than 400 thread count. In fact, many sheets with a thread count higher than 400 are usually fudging the truth by using a weaving process to mislead.
And finally on bed sheets, if you are hoping that opening the package to determine the best feeling sheet will lead you to the best deal- you are being duped. The truth is bed sheet manufacturers add hand feel enhancers and/or silicone softeners that wash out. Always wash bed sheets before placing them on your bed and if you don’t like how they feel after the first washing, return them!
So what would I recommend? A 100% Egyptian or combed cotton sateen with 300 to 400 thread count from a reputable retailer should cost you some where between $50 to $80.
2. Top of bed refers to comforters and duvets.
Comforters are most commonly made of synthetic fill with no mention of fill weight on the label and are usually pre-covered from the manufacturer. The market place is full of ready-made comforters and comforter sets. They are usually well priced and fashionable. However, you never really know what’s in them and the weight is usually low to meet a price point. Most synthetic comforters are hypoallergenic but I suggest you pre-wash all synthetic comforters before placing on your bed. Laundering ease is the best selling feature of a synthetic filled comforter.
Duvets are sold without a finished decorative cover. If you like to change your top of bed design often or just seasonally than a duvet is best for you. There are a number of natural duvet options, but down is most often recommended due to it’s flexibility. Not to mention, again, natural is best for breathability. Natural fill includes feathers and down, but feathers and down differ greatly. Down is taken from the under belly of cold weather water fowl. Natural down is very light, almost as light as air. Feathers are much heavier and stiffer with sharp pointy quills. Feather, unlike down don’t make good insulators and are best used for decorative cushions. Down duvets are sold with different weight fills, so you can customize how much or how little warmth you prefer. Except in rare occasions, feather and down allergies are a result of dust and dirt collected inside the duvet, not the down itself. Allergy sufferers shouldn’t necessarily discount feather and down.
There is so much to learn when it comes to natural fill, but in the end a natural down duvet is an investment for a lifetime and you really do get what you pay for.
Silk duvets are made from fibres layered on top of each other, which gives silk duvets a flatter appearance when compared with duvets filled with down. Silk duvets increasing popularity stems from a combination of factors, including their thermal properties, their light weight, and their natural hypoallergenic properties. The best silk duvets are made from wild silk or Grade A Mulberry silk. A good silk duvet is usually the most expensive of the 3 types of bed covers.
Keep in mind that for natural bedding to be effective the baffle material (that which keeps the down in it’s place) and duvet cover must be 100% cotton.
3. Layering a bed adds comfort and helps define the style of the bedroom. By the way, decor magazines get that full bedding look by using a high fill count down duvet with decorative covers. Add a coverlet to the foot of your bed for chillier nights. A coordinating coverlet can add color and texture to any bedroom. A throw contributes to further the designer finish in the bedroom. Always use your pillows to add another layer with decorative shams. Finally, finish with decorative cushions in accent colors to create that off-the-page-of-a-decor-magazine look.
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30 thoughts on “3 Ways to Create a Beautiful and Comfortable Bed”
This is definitely helpful! Need to revamp my bed!
Thank you for the post,
Thanks. I’m glad I can help people not get ripped off.
thisWasAGreatPost. I’m Just Not Happy With My Master, And Your Post Has inspired Me To Give It One More Try. My Biggest Problem IS Finding Really Interesting Bedding, As Shown In Many Photos. (And That Don’t Cost A Fortun). Any Suggestions?
Thanks For Your Help
I know what you’re saying. Try purchasing a duvet which you can keep for a long time with proper washing. Then purchase a duvet cover which is cheaper than buying a whole comforter set. This way you can add to the duvet cover as you can afford it. Keep the sheets simple coordinating color.
The sheets don’t need to be shown any way.
i admire them real
This is very helpful! My bed needs some oomph, but I don’t like having too many items around. I guess the solution is to have a bench on the bedroom so we can put the decorative pillows on it. What did you do with yours?
I have a big natural basket I keep the decorative cushions and throws in. If you don’t have the space for a bench or storage ottoman at the foot of the bed, than a decorative basket is the way to go. I’d love to see what you come up with. 🙂
Sharing this on my blog! The “bedding map” alone is so helpful. THANK YOU.
Thank you for your thoughtful comments. This post has been very popular. Can you think of another subject that would be as popular.
Nothing was said about sizing. I have found that a Queen-sized duvet never reaches the bottom of the mattress. So the fitted sheet always shows. Speaking of fitted sheets – these also never seem to fit! So I am going to go with a King-sized flat sheet to wrap around the Queen mattress. Are the pictures of a King-sized duvet over a Queen mattress?
I agree sizing is a problem. Manufacturers and retailers skimp on sizing to reduce costs. At the same time mattress manufacturers add more padding because it provides a perception of value. Better brands provide sizing on the package. Typically a 16″ to 18″ high corner fitted sheet is sufficient for mass market mattresses. I think you will find sizing for more luxurious mattresses online is your best bet.
This was so helpful, thank you~
Thank you for commenting. Ask anything. 🙂
I really enjoyed your article! My husband and I both love the crisp, cool feel of percale sheets but have a hard time finding them! We’ve purchased so many that sound wonderful only to be returned or given away. Could you provide me with a source for quality percale sheets at a good price? Also, do you have a website of your own? Thanks so much!
Thanks Janice. We are working on a website http://www.justdecorate.com, but it’s in the final stages.The problem with well priced percale sheets is that most manufacturers cheat on the quality and rely on end processors to fool even the retail buyers. For good quality I would invest on good sheets with Restoration Hardware, Horchow or other top retailers because they will take them back if you’re not satisfied. Wash them as soon as you get new sheets and see how you feel about them after going through the first wash and dry cycle. On line I like http://www.inthesac.com.au. If you’re in Canada try Simons.
This is soooo helpful, I have never had that “decor eye” that most women have and struggle with the right ways to set up my home. I have changed sheets, comforters and down duvets with mixing and matching and always ended up disappointed and my bed looking a hot mess (decor wise). I am so excited to start this project in hopes now with this very descriptive info I can do it myself! AND get the things I want as far as comfort! Now can you help me with the rest of my house! lol
Thanks so much and yes bedding and other textiles are a big part of a home. It’s important to know a few basics for healthy living too, but we love the decorating part most. ;0
I love the photo on where to put things! I wonder why I bought a coverlet sometimes since it doesn’t fit my whole bed. Do you have any suggestions for a comforter or duvet that would go with this coverlet? TIA! http://www.designerliving.com/Product/bedding/madison-park-samara-6-piece-coverlet-set/23523
In the “old days” my mom used to make the bed with a bedspread. A coverlet is really just a bedspread. I don’t know when it changed or why, but I’m sure marketing is involved. In some regions I have seen coverlets or bedspreads varying in size from the normal standards of a queen, king, etc. Check the dimensions on the package against your bed to make sure. Just put a note on your phone so you’ll always have it where you go. You can use your coverlet as a more of a decorative throw in the summer or for added warmth in the winter. I would pull out a color from the coverlet you have now, preferably neutral, and get a comforter in that color. This way you are getting that layered look. Make sure to purchase a comforter with the weight that makes you both comfortable.
I love your blog! I used this guide to redo some twin beds recently and they looked SO MUCH more professional and inviting than before. You have some great tips on here, many I’m hoping to put to use soon in my fiance and I’s first home! Anyway, I’ve really enjoyed your blog, so much so that I nominated you for a Liebster award! Check it out: http://cinemaddictionblog.wordpress.com/2014/07/06/you-like-me-you-really-really-like-me/ and thanks for all the great decorating advice!
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Do you have a recommendation on companies to purchase bedding from? I have been searching over a year for something similar to the photo in this post showing nuetral bedding without a pattern. Restoration seems a bit over priced in my opinion.
I agree RH is a bit too expensive for bedding. I haven’t seen a national chain that has outstanding value. Sometimes the best retailer for good quality and value are smaller neighborhood vendors. I do like Crane and Canopy because they detail every bit of their specs. For simpler bedding I would suggest looking at West Elm.